17) She’s posting in your Facebook wall or tagging you in issues
Read more about how to know if a girl is into you here.
What’s worse for me is I know currently she has had a Fwb going on with another woman, she tells me it’s just fun as that’s all she after, but then keeps inviting me every where she’s going, the smiles the dancing the touching is all confusing me, she acts like she wants more than Friends but then tells me she is not ready for a relationship. I’m wondering if when we talked, even though we talk and share all the time at work, I shared in a way that made her think “no, he is just a good friend” because frankly, I think there is potential here. People say I’m good looking, dress well and have a great sens of humour, etc., but since I don’t see any of those traits in myself, I’ve always felt thar since women choose from among guys, there’s no way any woman would ever choose me.
If you text her and she rarely replies, then it might be time to let it go, but if she replies instantly and keeps the conversation going, she definitely likes you. If she walks away from her friends to talk to you instead, you better believe she likes you, and you better believe she’s going to tell her friends all about it later, too. If she seems jealous when you talk to other girls, it’s probably because she likes you quite a bit. When a girl likes you, she is likely to blush around you pretty often. Either way, if she is looking your way more often than not, it’s because she is interested in what you’re doing, and probably interested in how you feel, too.
If, on the other hand, she is clutching her handbag across her midriff and looking away from you a lot, she’s trying to maintain a physical barrier between you and her either because she’s not interested, or because she is not yet comfortable enough in your presence. If she brings this up, it’s one of the strongest signs that she likes what she sees. Whatever the context, if she is saying kind things about you, it’s a good sign that she wants you to like her.
Whenever You Talk, You Always Seem to Have Your Friend’s Full Attention Sure, it’s possible that you really did pick the wrong person to date, and your friend is merely concerned about your happiness.
- But, it gets tricky because you have to pay attention to the person’s personality.
- Im just confused how she goes from that to touching and talking an laughing alot with me .
- Regardless, if you can tell she doesn’t like you around other girls, the ball is in your court.
If you’re in a conversation and you feel like she’s edging closer to you, or as if she’s almost uncomfortably too close to you, that’s a good sign. She even might try to pull you in the conversation to show she likes you or she’ll take a step back from the guy she’s talking to show you it’s nothing romantic.
Similarly, if she breaks plans with you more than once in a short span of time, that’s a sign she’s not interested. This seems obvious, but it’s worth pointing out: If she brings along a friend or only spends time with you in groups, then she’s probably not interested in you romantically.
[R] If one or two of the three aren’t facing you, she’s not fully engaged; if all three aren’t facing you, you’re talking to her back. If possible, try and observe her while she’s talking to a platonic friend; that can help give you a baseline of how often she normally blinks. (Of course, it’s also possible that she’s secretly a serial killer and you’re her next quarry, so, you know, just keep that in mind.) This is an unconscious thing a girl (with long enough hair, so this doesn’t work with Annie Lennox types) will do when she’s absorbed and captivated.
Friends can go places together and have a really great time and some day become more than just friends. Last year me and this girl had an amazing connection, she asked me out one day and then the very next day she called it off due to friends going crazy about it and saying it was all rushed, she also said she’d give ‘us’ a chance in the future.
You should have a good grasp if she’s just mean-spirited or not. But considering signs 2 and 3, I think she might be interested in you because she’s giving you so much of her attention. What’s interesting with flirting is that it’s so ambiguous, it’s supposed to be hard to interpret.